If your partner has a prostate, one of the best ways to take advantage of being big spoon is to engage in some slow, sensual prostate massage. Remember to start painfully slowly, working from the very tip, and then gradually farther and faster. We suggest tying both wrists to the headboard as you can then make sure that your partner stays still, and you can brace against their body as they wiggle in pleasure. Using silk ties, you can comfortably restrain your partner while lavishing your attentions on them. Of course, if you’re too impatient to simply watch, you can always take things into your own hands, literally. Positioning yourself so you can look over their shoulder and arm (either by scooting a bit above them or by putting pillows under their body) you can whisper all sorts of sweet nothings (and kisses and bites and licks and nibbles) to their neck and ears while watching them pleasure themselves.īy bringing your own favorite clitoral vibe into the mix, your partner will be able to feel you against their back, thus offering some erotic encouragement -or a challenge-as you both reach orgasm. There’s nothing sexier than knowing that you fuel your partner’s fantasies, and if they’re game for the exhibitionist nature of ‘being watched,’ then spooning can make for an amazingly intimate position.
You can also experiment with other types of sensation play, from tracing naughty words with your finger nails to lightly tickling with a feather teaser. While cuddling up close is definitely one of the major attracting factors of spooning, putting a little space between you can be great too!īy hooking your top leg around your partner’s waist and leaning back, you can really dig into their back muscles when giving a hurts-so-good massage -while using plenty of warming massage oil too, of course. Generally, male partners take on the role of ‘big spoon,’ but seeing this as the only configuration means missing out some amazingly sensual and sexy possibilities. Why we refer to a ‘big spoon’ and ‘little spoon’ is a bit of a mystery if you’ve ever looked at 2 actual spoons nesting within each other, but we digress. Browse 11,900 spooning stock photos and images available, or search for couple spooning or spooning bed to find more great stock photos and pictures. The final position observed was spooning, deemed "sidelying" by the researchers.īoth infrared and electromagnetic motion capture systems were used to assess how subjects moved their spines during intercourse.For sleeping, sex, and everything in between, spooning is one of our favorite positions. They also performed two variations of the missionary position, one of which required increased flexion at the hips and knees. Ten healthy males and females performed coitus in five pre-established positions, including doggy-style while supporting the body with the elbows and again supporting the body with the hands. "But when we examined spine motion and muscle activity, we found that spooning can actually be one of the worst positions for certain types of back pain." "Traditionally, spooning was recommended by physicians to all individuals with back pain because it was thought to reduce nerve tension and load on the tissues," says Natalie Sidorkewicz, a PhD candidate at Waterloo who led the study. Spooning was once recommended for the extension-intolerant, but the Waterloo study has disproved this since the first wave of its findings was revealed, recommending doggy-style sex for men looking to avoid back pain. On the contrary, women who are extension-intolerant, meaning that they experience pain upon arching their backs or lying on their stomachs, should stick to the missionary position and place a pillow under their spine for support.
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